Evidently following up on the discussion about men, and especially white men, and the comments made on his last posting, Bill offers this explanation:
Men disgusting? I think not!
I find the surprise, disgust, and fascination with the behavior of men to be both baffling and amusing. It is quite obvious that the basic reason for this behavior has slipped by most people. The simple answer is genetics.
For whatever reason, be it a god or evolution, there have been two basic genetic developments that have been generated in men and women. Men have genetically evolved or been designed to spread seed. Yes… “Men will screw almost anything that stands still” is a simple genetic fact. Women on the other hand have been implanted to collect twigs and branches and build nests. Men simply look at every woman in the context of “sex or no sex”. Women look at men with the evaluation of how would they fit into the nest and the offspring that would arise. Between these two genetic designs we have been able to satisfy the reproduce portion of the “eat, survive, and reproduce” drives in our existence.
What needs to be pointed out, though, is that it is a very vital part of the male/female relationship that men are such disgusting creatures. Basically if there was not this dominant (defective?) genetic feature, most men would not socially speak to women. I know, I know, you cannot possibly believe this; however you are still thinking with the male sex drive concept dominant in your mind. If you can, scrub completely out of your mind the male sex drive portion of this discussion and you may begin to understand.
As an example, let’s leave the female nesting aspect intact and erase the male sex obsession to look at a scenario. Would a boy walk across the high school dance floor to ask a girl to dance so that they can discuss the cars they drive realizing that there is a real possibility of the rejection that may occur in these situations? Let me see…Walk over to dance and talk with Julie about my new exhaust system on my car or stay right here and talk with Johnnie who has the same system in his car. I don’t have any sexual thoughts in my head so I think I will stay right here. It is difficult to clear our minds of the sex aspect due to the fact that it is genetically implanted, however if you can accomplish this you may see the point.
Basically the “disgusting” behavior of men is the best thing women have going for them and it should be relished, not held in disdain. After we get the sex out of the way we can usually find that we have something in common and can enjoy each other's company. If not, there is always divorce.